It’s Time To Talk About Suicide

I distinctly remember the first time I heard about someone I knew who took their own life. I was in the 7th grade, and he went to my school. He was a few years older than me – a sophomore in high school, a varsity athlete with a pretty girlfriend and lots of friends – he seemed to have it all together. We had a school-wide assembly to tell us that he had “passed away” the night before and to please respect his family and their privacy. By lunch, the word “suicide” was being whispered in the hallways. I had so many questions. Why did he do it? He always looked so cool and so happy. What had gone wrong? Had anyone known just how sad he was? No one ever sat down with me and asked me if I wanted to talk about it, and I never brought it up to anyone. Talking about suicide felt wrong. It felt scary and inappropriate. That is, until it happened again. I have known 4 people, including that boy, who have taken their own lives. That is 4 too many.

One of the first steps to preventing suicide is learning about it and being comfortable talking openly about it. Speaking safely about the subject of suicide can lower the risk of someone you know committing suicide. Here are some important facts to know:

Almost 45,000 people in the United States die by suicide each year.

That translates to 123 deaths by suicide per day in the United States alone. In the past 20 years, the number of suicides has increased by 30%.

For every completed suicide, there are 25 suicide attempts.

That means that for the 45,000 people who died from suicide, 1,125,000 suicide attempts were made, and that number could be much higher. Often, people do not report attempts that were made, and so there is no way to know for sure how many people are struggling at one time.

Suicide is the 10th leading cause of Death in the United States.

This is behind things like cancer, heart disease, and diabetes. However, suicide is the cause of death that takes away the most years from people’s lives, as many of the people who take their own lives are physically healthy.

Suicide can be “contagious.”

This is behind things like cancer, heart disease, and diabetes. However, suicide is the cause of death that takes away the most years from people’s lives, as many of the people who take their own lives are physically healthy.

Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual individuals are 3 times more likely to attempt suicide, and 41% of transgender adults report attempting suicide.

This is behind things like cancer, heart disease, and diabetes. However, suicide is the cause of death that takes away the most years from people’s lives, as many of the people who take their own lives are physically healthy.

With the levels of depression and suicide at an all-time high in our country, it is more important than ever to be knowledgeable and feel comfortable talking openly about suicide. It’s always better to ask if you are concerned, as the old saying goes, “It’s always better to be safe than sorry.” If you or someone you know is thinking of suicide or is in a place where they feel like there is no hope, call one of these numbers to get help. You are never alone.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255, toll free, open 24 hours everyday.

The Trevor Project (LGBTQ): 1-866-488-7386, toll free, open 24 hours everyday.

If you are really worried that someone you know or love is going to hurt themselves, you can always call the police at 911. Don’t worry about appearing “overly dramatic.” Remember – better safe than sorry.

Suicide can be hard to talk about, no matter how much you know, and it can be confusing and scary. Watch www.drtabitha.com for our upcoming series on suicide. We will cover hot topics like how to talk to someone about suicide, how to talk to your children about suicide, the stigma against mental health disorders, and coping with depression.